You shouldn't take it as an accusation. If I made that impression, I'm really sorry. Remember, this is the part Growing
Help, we are trying to help you. It is indeed a unique and attractive plant. You were aware of the difficulties. But you didn't read enough about the species. Otherwise you would have known about it being difficult and you probably wouldn't have bought it.
This upsets me for two reasons:
a. It is still a rare and threatened plant.
b. Most beginning growers are demotivated when they lose one of the most beautiful plants of their collection and that would be a shame.
To answer your answers:
1. Watering should depend on the weather (temperature, air moisture and light), there is no real formula for it. I know an old lady who waters her cacti every day, and they look quite nice, but I'm talking about Echinopsis oxygona, and Opuntia microdasys in a clay pot. She doesn't water them at all in winter. She has more flowers on her E. oxygona than I can ever dream of. But we're talking about M. theresae.
2. That's true, but artificial light can never fully replace real light.
3. Commercial mixes, are, exactly as you write it, commercial. Even the mineral parts in the mix are of a low quality, and there's generally too much peat in it. (Also, a mineral composition tends to let the water drop right through.)
4. Probably so. Could be the picture.
You were asking advice, but shouldn't you have asked for advice or read about it before buying the plant, or right after? Growing cacti is a wonderful and rewarding hobby, but can be sometimes more challenging than anyone would think. Even the most experienced of us sometimes notice that. I think you've learnt that now, probably, but hopefully not, the hard way, as you've possibly lost a nice plant.
Also, I do not, as I really don't have the right to do so, think of myself as an "expert". In my opinion, and then I'm speaking in the name of must of us I think, we just exchange knowledge and experiences.
Then again, I'm sorry for my reaction that may have been a little too harsh. I'm also used to help reptile breeders, and there you have to be harsh to let people know they're not doing the right thing or haven't been reading enough, for example, as they state that their small, cute crocodile has got too large!
Good luck trying to save your plant. Please do not think of me as a naughty person right now, as I really am not
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